Monday, May 21, 2007

TIME IS WHIPPING BY...


MORE ON THE PEOPLE THAT YOU MEEET, when you are walking down the street.... we will call her... kindly...

"quite confused" now i don't think I've talked about her much.... simply because we don't hang out in the same circles anymore. and i can't give you a link just yet cause i haven't found a post about her that i haven't used her name so I'll just let you in on what happening.

"q.c" used to be good friends, she dated a couple of our buddies and has had crushes on more than a few of us. then she started to turn a little weird.

she really made it her mission, to make every ones girlfriends jealous. i don't know if she does it on purpose or what... (but i think she knows exactly what the fuck she is doing.) sitting on their laps, trying to kiss them, calling dudes girlfriends saying she is going to hang out with them for lunch, "I love you hun..." etc. etc. etc....

it got to the point where i couldn't hang out with her any more. huge problems between my ex and her. she was always causing problems with me...

and now i hear that she is doing it to other people. my ex and her new boyfriend. my buddy choo choo is experiencing some problems as well. i need to sit down with these people and explain what fucking hell this woman put me through back in the day. and how to avoid it now.

i invited her over for a buddies un-birthday party a couple weeks ago. i knew if she didnty get the invite she would be really, really hurt. knowing what might be in store, i warned special cheese and tried to make it clear to her that this shit was not going to fly anymore... i do think she is a good friend and would do anything for any of us, if she could just stop this fucking hitting on others boyfriends and shit, she would get more invitations to come over.

if you are out there and someone like this is in your life... just tell her to cut that shit out. dont try to be nice, dont try to not hurt her feelings, if your lady or man is being stalked, you need to tell that person to stop meddling... its all i can tell you!!!

anyway, just thought of her this morning and wondered who shes stalking nowadaze... have a great week all!

4 comments:

Black Egg said...

I went through hell dealing w/ a woman like this a couple years back. It took my boyfriend a reeeeally long time to wake the fuck up to what she was doing - acting like I was the one w/ the problem/jealous etc. At least your friend seems nice - this woman was devious, borderline dangerous. Her unofficial "excuse" was that she was, just, well, crazy - tried to present it as crazy-good - you know, wacky, etc. But no, she really was fucking nuts. Leaving dead crows near my car, that kinda shit. Gah! I don't want to think about her! I still hate her! Good for you being right up front w/ your GF so she knows what the deal is...

INNER VOICES said...

wow! awesome, a dead cow! well not really, but that is some sicko shit! this one is not so wacked out, but the shit she used to pull is seemingly just as bad. and now my buddy is having to deal with it.... good for me, bad for him.

Kay said...

I guess I've lucked out that I've never had to deal with anyone like that.
I think you're totally right that in being completely up front with her/him/shim and not trying to sugar coat it when you tell them to knock that shit off.
Maybe she'll come around...

INNER VOICES said...

B-EGG... oops you said crows... eerr, still fucking crazy but better than cows i guess!

kay.... lucky you, never having to have had to deal with that type. i hope that luck continues with that! if she were to come around though it would be an absolute gift from god... hahahaha... thanx for the comments!